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A conversation with a real Mad Man

In News, TV on January 22, 2013 at 2:04 pm


‘Mad Men’ television show opening credits:

About:  Mad Men is an American dramatic television series. The series airs on Sunday evenings on the American cable network AMC and is produced by Lionsgate Television. It premiered on July 19, 2007, concluded its fifth season on June 10, 2012, and has been renewed for a sixth season.

I absolutely adore the television series Mad Men. The series has won several awards, including fifteen Emmys and four Golden Globes. It is a 1960s drama set in fictional advertising agencies called Sterling Cooper on Madison Avenue in New York City, and Sterling Cooper Draper Pryce.

The aesthetic of the show is great – I feel propelled to the 60s. The style of clothes, hair, furniture… The seemingly endless amount of liquor and cigarettes. The loose morals.  The goal to get the account or the girl. Women are bigger, curvier, sexier.

I had the opportunity to ask a real Mad Man a few questions. His name is Marty Baker and I was impressed with his candor and amazing sense of humor. He is a dashing, chivalrous, charming older man  – they just don’t make them like that nowadays.

Marty Baker has a unique ‘insider’ perspective on a very popular television show. Marty embodies an aspect of pop culture history. He lived what is now a fabulous story:


Romy: First of all Marty, I want to thank you for agreeing to do this interview.

Marty: My pleasure to travel down memory lane with you.

R: What year[s] did you work as an advertising guy? What were your responsibilities?

M: I started at BBDO (Batten, Barton, Durstine & Osborne) in 1953 in the mailroom after college at $29.50 per week gross which going to 40 hours gave me a gross of $35.  Was living at home where I gave my Dad $10 weekly.

Worked up to Assistant Account Executive. Then went to Ogilvy & Mather as an Account Executive around 1956 to work on Schenley Whiskey, Christian Bros, Wines & Schwepes Tonic.  In 1959 I was recruited to Doyle, Dane Bernbach as a Senior Account Executive.  In those days, Ogilvy and DDB were the hottest creative shops in the USA…if not the world!

In the 14 years I was there I worked up to Sr. Vice President, Management Supervisor.  I was, what was later called, “A Suit”.  I handled US Rubber, Keds Sneakers, Uniroyal Tires, Royal Golf Equipment, Lees Carpets, Ponderosa Steak Houses, Seagrams plus a few other accounts.

R: What do you like about the series ‘Mad Men?’

M: How can I count the ways? It brings me back to the “good old days” hearing expressions and seeing actions that really take me back!  All portrayed is very accurate except they don’t really show what mavericks and characters some top and not so top creative types were.  Also, tensions between creative types and account types were always there.  I was often told that if I was good to my wife and kids as I was to my creative teams I would win Husband and Father of the year Awards! 

Love the clothing, cars etc.

R: Can you tell me which expressions and/or actions you resonated with?

M: “Entertaining clients.” Strategizing on presentations.

R: What don’t you like about the series ‘Mad Men?’

M: We had more indiscriminate sex than they suggest.  Remember, the Pill became popular just a few years earlier so the ladies could relax and the guys could enjoy!  No HIV then just VD which was easily handled.  Also, tremendous amount of entertaining of clients or being entertained by print, & broadcast media.

R: Did “entertaining” include sex? If so, would escorts be provided? What was standard “entertaining” practice?

M: Most entertaining involved dinner, shows & sporting events.  Some may have provided escorts or access to houses like Polly Adler’s but I never did it.  On a business trip to San Francisco a client sales manager took me to a top college football game and then suggested that we could meet for “dinner and …” with a couple of lovely ladies but I declined.  I always preferred finding my own!

R: Were there office romances? Did men have sex with their secretaries? Were you aware of extra marital affairs? How rampant were these?

M: Not infrequent at all! One of our vice-presidents told his wife that he had a late night meeting with a difficult client. (I did this more times than I can remember.)

About 8:30 that evening, his wife was flipping channels on the TV to see if anything interested her.  She happened to pause on the baseball game – which she never watched – and was about to change channels when the camera zoomed into the stands and showed a couple in hot embrace and kiss…they came up for air…and there was her hubby.

I had several affairs over the years but only once with my own secretary.  Much less complicated with someone else’s or with other gals in the agency.

R: Are there similarities between the television show ‘Mad Men’ and what you experienced? If so, please elaborate on the similarities. Did you smoke? Drink? Wear hats?


I always wore a felt hat, sometimes called a Fedora with a colorful, little feather thing in the hatband on the left side.  In the summer I wore a straw hat.  Hats began to go out of style when Kennedy was elected.  He was the first President to go hat-less and the hat industry hated him!

Watching the show startles me to realize that all of us smoked EVERYWHERE!  At a desk, conference table, restaurant, athletic events, in bed…both before & after!  It was unthinkable to answer a phone and not light up!

I don’t recall having liquor so readily available in our offices…and as the guy handling liquor accounts I sure would have them.  Always had samples but seldom drank in office.  However, drinking with clients, among us in various lounges and on business trips was rampant.  Lots happened!

A few were true alcoholics.  One of my first bosses, a brilliant man who wasn’t worth a damn in the morning but after three Martinis at lunch was incredibly good died at age 45 with cirrhosis of the liver.

R: There have been so many shifts since that time – which shift has made an impression on you?

M: The truly brilliant creative guys like David Ogilvy and Bill Bernbach had their most notable successes working from their gut…not from focus groups like political parties do.  Clients could CYA if they reached decisions based on research so they wouldn’t have to take the blame if it didn’t work out.

R: What does CYA stand for?

M: Cover Your Ass.

R: Were there any black writers? Any female writers?

M: I never saw a black writer…many female writers…very few female art directors.  The only black of any sex I can recall was a man, Clarence Holt, who worked at BBDO as the “negro market specialist”.  I always thought that was a laugh!  Here was a black that graduated from an Ivy League school, dressed in Brooks Brothers clothing and lived in lily-white New Canaan, Conn.

R: Marty, we are very privileged to have your account of an extraordinary time and situation. Thank you so much!

M: My pleasure, Romy! 



In News on September 30, 2012 at 10:24 am

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Romy Shiller, a medical mystery, not only tells the story of her brain surgery, lengthy coma and Akinetic Mutism, but she muses about reality, death, time, popular culture, psychic phenomena and dreams.

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Inspiring story of a courageous woman overcoming obstacles to get her life back.”

I also found this:

Transforming the way people living with disabilities communicate, share, and grow.

Um, more…Shiller’s “Disability Drag” Concept Changes Disability Stereotypes

You Never Know: A Memoir, is about Romy Shiller, a Canadian writer and critic, was diagnosed with a brain tumor in 2003… In the past six years, she has done much to confound doctors’ expectations.

Disability Drag
Having studied and worked in performance art of various kinds before her disability, Shiller is inclined to see similarities between her experience and the sort of pop culture entertainment that she wrote about for her doctoral thesis in drama. Performers in drag shows project an image that subverts “societal norms,” says Shiller. A physical disability projects an image, too, and it’s often one that society interprets in a negative light.
“Disability drag” is Shiller’s phrase for the way courageous people with disabilities can make society rethink its ideas about body image, identity, and personal growth. “Cyborg drag” is her term for living with a permanent shunt to drain excess fluid from her brain. She is part human, part machine, she says, and this gives her another rare insight into conventional ideas about what it means to be human…

I’m referred to in:   A CLASS ACT: Ryan Landry and the Politics of Booger Drag by Karen C. Krahulik Copyright 2008 by Duke University Princeton

Alumnotes: McGill University

Great gifts idea:

Bibliography of Theatre History in Canada

Author: Shiller, Romy
Title: Drag King invasion: taking back the throne
CTR, Volume: 86
Pages: 24-28
Greater Toronto Drag King Society / / Performance Art

One of my favorite magazines is BUST Magazine

Another is DISCOVER Magazine

My favorite film is Lost in Translation

My favorite band is Gotye

Favorite nail polish colours are “We’ll Always Have Paris”  (dark red) and “Lincoln Park After Dark” (dark purple)  by OPI

Favorite TV show: True Blood